When most women probably cry, scream, or even get physical upon finding out about their husbands' affair, some become as calm as the sea before the storm. Andrea Owen, an author, and coach on self-confidence got on a throwback moment on TikTok. She shared how she handled the aftermath after finding out about her husband's infidelity about 15 years ago.
On July 6th, she uploaded to TikTok how she launched a counterattack to her husband's unfaithful actions.
Her husband cheated on her with a neighbor and found out that she was 7-month pregnant with his kid.
In a flurry of rage, she decided to commit one hilariously, terrific prank on the man.
It is all but part of helping Andrea move on from the man. Really, who wants to stay with someone that can't keep some private things to themselves - and their partners only?
She decided to make a hole in every single pair of pants and underwear that she might have helped iron, laundry, and folded while they were together.
"We had been together for over 13 years at this point," Andrea told her followers.
She had been dating the ex since she was 17, and they were married for a few years already. The two were actually thinking about having their first child, and Andrea was excited about the prospect because they'd wanted one for a while.
"This was by no means a great relationship. It definitely had its fair share of problems and challenges," she continued. "There were some red flags that really looked like he was having an affair, and I confronted him many times to which he vehemently denied."'
"Meanwhile, he had been having an affair with the neighbor who lived across the street and was lying to her as well."
She laughed, and we all did, too. Ah, that was satisfying! The video had racked up more than 3.9 million views now.
The man actually had the audacity to tell the neighbor that he was divorcing Andrea while they were still married and that Andrea was refusing it. "She should come over and talk to me because I was crazy," Andrea reiterated her ex's words for the neighbor.
He continued gaslighting Andrea and denied his affair to the point he convinced their marriage counselor that she was crazy. She later "had a nice little chat" with the neighbor when she picked up his cellphone, and the two found out about each other.
She described the whole thing as "complete bananas," as the man would go as far as forging bank statements and made his friends lied for him. She ended up having the baby, but their relationship did not last long.
Divorced and definitely happier now. Why do men?
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